Call me an agnostic (he allows for that as well). I believe there is some power bigger than me or all of humanity that we can never understand. He often uses the term "Infinite Intelligence" which to me is close enough to "Mother Nature" for me to accept (and even prefer).
He points out that there are many kinds of healers some tied to a story book of some sort and others to something akin to witchcraft. They often get results not because they have the true faith, a secret ingredient or procedure, but because in their subconscious they and their patients had faith.
It is easy to realize that all humans have two minds or as he says elsewhere, one mind with two spheres. One is the consciousness that we use to calculate what to do and think. Our subconscious is more encompassing in that it regulates our bodies (such as heart beat, digestion system, etc.) without normally conscious awareness and it also sorts out much of your concerns when we are not paying attention. It follows our conscious direction, so we should be careful not let negative thinking overwhelm us.
Here are some other points I feel are helpful to a happy life:
Give thanks before going to sleep will help set a good mood. Sleeping allows the subconscious to be active.
Robert Louis Stevenson consciously tried to activate his subconscious to find creative stories. Mark Twain, another author felt his success was due to his ability to tap his subconscious.
Fear is a person's greatest enemy. Fear of failure creates a block
that can lead to failure. Ralph Waldo Emerson said "Do the thing you
are afraid to do and the death of fear is certain."
Forgiveness liberates you. Murphy thinks it is just as important to forgive yourself. Most of us carry guilt for something we did in the past and for some that is a heavy burden. We need to move on with a clear conscience.
Retiring is a big change. Work for most of us gives a feeling of purpose, if only to support our families. As I approached retirement I looked for some things to do. My readers can assume I found blog writing, along with the research required to be a part of my plans. You would be right, but that really is only part of the day. I have found two volunteer situations that I look forward to. I agree with the author that there is more to life than just surviving. Life is meant to be enjoyed.
Happiness is a habit. All habits are maintained by your subconscious. Negative thinking can also be a habit that you need to consciously fight.
Whatever thing annoys or disturbs you does so by your choice. Throwing things against the wall or ranting are not as effective as ignoring affronts to your dignity or views. If you puncture someone else's ego you cannot gain their goodwill. This is too often is a response to criticism, but is counter productive.
You got this far because you think your life could be better in some way and you are right. There are many thoughts on the challenge and below is my link to many approaches. They are mostly not in conflict and you would do well to consider them. http://www.therealjohndavidson.com/2019/12/an-antidote-to-chaos-series-of-rules.html






